Well, just as the title said, I expect to be judged by many people by writing this blog. I also expect to be called a variety of names, however none could be worse than the names I have been called by my lover's wife.
Yes, I have been a mistress for the past 26 years. And no. I do not advocate adultery. I am so much against it, because it causes so much pain to all people involved. I am not talking about one night stands, they are gross and they suck and whoever of the marital partners engages in them, endangers the well being of their family. I also don't talk about the type of Tiger Wood affairs, where the husband is looking for sexual variety. I am talking about affairs, that can last for a lifetime and can run parallel to a marriage. Affairs, where the mistress and the husband are faithful to each other, affairs that happened for whatever reasons.
I am writing this blog for my own sanity, it is part of my own therapy. I am also writing this in the hope of helping people who are or have been in a similar situation , of assuring them life does go on. I am especially writing this article for the wives, who found out that their husbands had a mistress and the pitfalls to avoid.
This might sound ironic, but whoever will read this will soon realize that I am not taking sides, not for the mistress, the wife or the husband.
I hope you'll read on.
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